The man of your dreams has romantically proposed, of course you say yes! You rush to tell family and friends, you excitedly set the date, life is good… next comes the wedding planning, juggling your time and money, ploughing through endless to do lists, politely rising above interfering friends and family and resisting the will to throw or break something when your car driver carelessly double books and cancels one week before the date.
Miraculously you kept on track, you kept your sanity and the day is set to be perfect! But what’s that? The niggling anxiety that surely something will go wrong, something will be forgotten, broken – disaster will strike! Never fear, we have a few answers to the most common worries and problems a bride faces.
Lets be honest, the only problem that cant be fixed and would make the whole day fall to pieces is the ‘no- show’ of one of the leading roles, your self or your partner!
Your beloved, he will show! – Of course he will, relax, he did ask you after all, and he hasn’t bolted during the chaotic planning of the day when maybe once or twice bridezilla threw a tantrum or two. He’s in for the ride and cannot wait to make you his other half
*We definitely recommend that you put you foot down and not let his best mate whisk the stags off too near the wedding, a hung-over groom or a groom in another country would be what we consider a match to a flame.
Your bridesmaids – your best friends, and perhaps the cousin you’ve not seen since you were 5? They are your rocks, they are also your squat team, use them, keep them focused (and never more drunk than yourself), they can deal with any stresses on your behalf leaving you free to enjoy and experience your day.
* We recommend that you give at least two of your bridesmaids an emergency recovery kit to keep in there bags, consisting of useful bits to combat any unplanned predicaments; nail varnish to double whammy chipped nails and ladders in stockings! Hairspray to keep your locks looking no less than perfection, a sewing kit to be prepared for any snags or tears, wipes to remove any stains, makeup for vital touch ups and perfume to keep you smelling sweet.
Good company -, Enjoy having all of your friends and family in the same place, catch up, reminisce, and enjoy the party, they are all here to help you celebrate your big day and they couldn’t be happier for you, you have spent a lot of time planning the day so please take time to enjoy it – make it worth it!
Now what?-
After all the time and effort that was ploughed into the big day its all over, its time for the debrief. Now what will you do with all of your time? Your life of marital bliss has begun, you can focus on your new life as a Mrs, and if that’s not enough, you can busy yourself with present opening, thank you cards , honeymooning, name change forms, wedding albums…
Mere Golf & Country Club is the perfect , to find out more about our reception and .